Reflections Of A Man

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I don't know how or why I came across this book but when I started reading this I instantly knew this was pure feminist crap... And then... Just for fun... I kept reading it.. :D Reflections Of A Man is a book designed for both men and women to enhance the quality of their personal relationships. Yes, a relationship is a full-time job. You can’t just leave it to a person and hope for the best. It is a 50/50 thing. Both parties have to play their part till forever as they usually do at the beginning. This is the only way to make it work.

Then again I know awesome examples for non fictional/self-help books on topics that don‘t affect me at all, I love beyond words. To be honest, I personally think that this book is more targeted towards the broken-hearted and ill-fated relationship. And it covers the topics well for the targeted audience and helps you to carry yourself and move on. However, for married couples, termination of marriage puts too much at stake and a different approach is needed to save whatever is left. Not to judge, but I have a sense that the author is unmarried and had gone through a bad relationship in the past. The author encourages more of termination of relationship rather than to talk, discuss and sort things out between the 2 lovers. I guess the quotes are supposed to be made up by the author himself. I wish they were more original. I wish they would teach something more than the stuff you read on inspo insta accounts.

I was really compelled to read this because there have been a number of requests of this book in our local bookstores. This is a self-help book for those who are in a relationship and for those who are looking for one and wants some guidance as to how being in a mutual relationship is all about. I have nothing against this book, I mean yeah, a lot of things written here are really helpful for those people who seem to have no idea what they are getting into.

The author believes that life could become more satisfying if man’s attention remains for one woman he is with. I would like to think I know what I deserve and what I want and what I also should be willing to give in a healthy relationship but this book certainly solidified some things for me as well as enlightened me on others.When I started reading — Reflections of a man, the first thought appear in my mind was, who would invest such efforts? But as I continued I realized he guide men and women which is not very difficult (if one really wants to improve his relationship). Nationalist, patriotic, conservative, and spiritually autobiographical . . . it is a strange, enormously, clever (also foolish) and (in an alarming sense) fascinating piece, of sustained, often anguished and sometimes contorted eloquence. There seemed to be a heavy sense of female empowerment in this book, which is fabulous but I think the man in a healthy relationship should be treated just as equally. Which the book does not disapprove that at all, I just found it didn't have much towards a man's emotional needs as a woman's; but it does have some. And the way I look at it is that a lot of what I read in this book that a man should do for a woman, a woman should also do for a man but I think this book implies that. The author of this book must have a wonderful, loving heart and soul and anyone, man or woman, should aspire to be just as insightful, loving, soulful, and intuitive to their significant other.

For the women, it encourages you to recognize the true value of your love, to reevaluate your standards and to make the decision that you will no longer settle for anything less than someone who loves you, respects you, and truly makes you happy. I believe that if some men would just stop trying to impress all women and simply focus on the physical and emotional needs of the one they are with, their lives would be far less expensive and much more fulfilling.” It's making everyone so fragile and overly sensitive that they won't listen to the facts.. When did people start becoming so offended and sensitive to the hard truths.. Plus, the author has dedicated space for both women and man to take notes about what they had done in their past relationships? What they should had done? What should be avoided in future relations to avoid unpleasant experiences?Edit: Nah forget about the second star. I forgot to mention... this book contains all the wrong type of feminism. All these advices (let them be helpful or nah) might be given to men just as well. They, too, deserve only the best. They too can suffer from unhealthy relationships. They too can be emotionally and also physically abused. They too should never take second best. To be honest I already know most of the things I've read here, If you have been in a few relationships, I'm sure you already felt what true love is, or not or you're able to distinguish what kind of people suits you more, I'm sure you've been hurt, made mistakes and learned from them. I'm sure you're well enough without this book, just keep doing what you're doing because the thing about it is that it tends to be pretentious not everything about it is true, not everything about it reflects every man or woman because we are different people, we react and deal with things differently. This book in my opinion seems to generalize every action and mistakes of a person and the meaning under those situations are more often than not true but some situations in relationships are more complex than the simpler reasons Mr. Amari Soul is giving us. But the thing is, you don't necessarily follow them just because the book says so, It's there to help you but it sure did not help me, there isn't a thing in this book that I don't already know. When are people going to realize that this is exactly the kind of shit that promotes the "blame culture". The shit that promotes you standing in front of the mirror and saying "I am beautiful, I am strong" just so you could hide the fact that you won't accept a fact.. No beautiful person ever goes in front of the mirror and says that crap.. They just know they are.. Although I myself have yet to have a real romantic relationship, I can understand and relate to a lot of the passages in this book. I can also see it being more helpful and uplifting to those who have had bad experiences with relationships.

Keeps justifying every petty detail that's wrong with woman and somehow twists and molds it in a way that it's the man's fault! (just like a woman :D ) Now I know I'm not the target audience ( strong, confident, overly sensitive and fragile woman :D :P ) for this book but I'd still leave a review just because I'm so tired of stupid people making all the men look bad without any strong arguments... Her poetry (I'm not sure it's poetry) is just too plain (I don't want to use a harsh word). She rhymes 'you' with 'you', Even William Herondale's comic poetry in Cassandra Clare's The Infernal Devices is better (which according to Cassandra is not a top notched one but I found it amusing and perfect) Good publicity, too many sponsored posts and creative writing(Like literally creative with italics and all) brought me this book. This is a very easy and light read. I actually read it in one sitting. Thus, it makes a great reading for singles planning to start a relationship or those in pre-marital relationship with no commitment attached, as you can always simply walk away from the person you feel not the right one.That’s the knowledge I gained from Reflections of a man and I think It was a good read. Maybe you too give it a chance. Many women, especially those who are in right after breakup or rejection phase may find this as a comforting book. But, the book doesn't really convey the truth "He's just not that into you". It sugarcoats the situation to make the woman feel she deserves better, which also means sour grapes in certain scenarios. Reflections helps us to understand the problem that has not gone away: the dilemma of the intellectual (the writer, the artist) in politics. Without the impassioned patriotic document it is impossible to see Mann's artistic and political development in the right perspective.