TERNENCE Small Male Chastity Device Stainless Steel Ergonomic Design Male Cock Cage K045 (45mm/ M Size)

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If they hang down with a height of more than 2”, or extend away from your body with a length of more than 1.5”, then you should definitely choose a cage with a large gap. Generally wearing a chastity device does not hurt, but you shouldn’t always expect it to feel comfortable right away. It can take a some time to become used to it; both physically and mentally. Once you’ve become accustomed to wearing it at times it will sometimes feel as if the cage is “caressing” your penis. This can heighten arousal, and feels like you’re wearing your own personal “bondage cuddle”. Best case scenario: you discover a whole new layer to your relationship and a whole new side of yourself. The easiest solution is to use a little lube on the affected area if you feel rubbing and friction. This should make wearing your chastity cage a much more comfortable experience.

Perhaps most importantly, you’ll be compromising on comfort. When you’re going to be wearing this device for hours, days or even weeks at a time, why not take the extra care to make sure it’s comfortable?And if you answered yes, then… Well, damn. That’s hardcore, dude. You probably know more about this fetish than I do, so don’t listen to me. Even if you don’t think of yourself as a submissive or a slave, I think any adventurous man should try this kind of domination play at least once. When I say “effectively”, that means a few things. It should keep it secure, obviously. But also consider how hard you want it to restrain erections. Michael is the author of the Total Chastity Diary and has been in and out of chastity since his mid-thirties. He’s now 41. He lives and works in Boston, has a white-collar job, and is single by choice.

The key is getting the right fit. You’ll need to have accurate measurements to find the right size chastity cage for you, and even then, everybody and every cage is different, so it’s normal to go through some trial and error. The two most important measurements are the ring diameter, and the cage length. Diameter can also help with comfort but in the majority of cases if you choose the right length, the diameter will also be correct. This measurement is the circumference of your penis and scrotum. You need to divide this number by 3.14 to get the diameter. Sometimes you’ll also see a measurement for the gap between the ring and the body, which can be useful if you have particularly large or high hanging testicles, but most of the time you won’t need to measure for this part.

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If you masturbate alone every day, then you’ll probably want less sex. And when you do have sex, you might find be desensitized. You might even find it hard to cum. A poorly fitted cage won’t just be uncomfortable though. It could fall off completely, cause pain when you start getting hard, chafe and irritate your skin, and cause hygiene problems as the pee hole doesn’t line up properly with your urethra. There are three of these clamps included with the cage, along with the usual pins and spacers. The anti-pullout feature is optional, though, so you can leave these off if you want to start slowly or simply want more freedom.

Aim for the tip of your penis to touch the tip of the cage. This will let you urinate through the hole at the tip.

There’s nothing hugely special about me. I’d describe myself as your typical modern, forward-thinking guy. I enjoy sports, staying healthy, love my family and friends, and have a satisfying career that pushes me to work hard so I can enjoy some of life's luxuries. Don’t be afraid to try multiple cages. Finding one that fits well can massively enhance your chastity experience. The measurements you’ll need are length and girth, plus the circumference from underneath your balls and over your penis. Write down these measurements while both flaccid and erect. Long story short, you don’t want to go outside and have everyone looking at your cage underneath your trousers. Sleeker plastic cages will be better for this as they are easier to wear and move around in, and often less bulky under the pants.

Hold your flaccid penis in your hand at a 90 degree angle from your body (pointing straight away from you). Place the end of the tape measure against your pubic muscle, and lay it flat along the length of your penis. Long term, absolutely not. Discomfort will turn into pain, and pain can turn into a medical emergency faster than you’d think. If you want to wear a cage for longer than a few hours, comfort and safety are the priority. While not all chastity devices list a gap size, it’s usually easy to see from pictures if a cage has a large or small gap, relative to the device's size itself. Estimates can be made from the product's total length. It depends. If you want something to wear on and off during scenes, then a bit of discomfort could be acceptable if that’s what you and your partner want.

A snug-fitting metal cage will keep your penis from moving at all, whereas a looser plastic cage will allow for some movement and just prevent you from getting hard. They’re designed to inhibit erection and orgasm and hand over control to the Key Holder in the ultimate form of orgasm control. So all in all it’s not worth looking for a cage you can keep on forever, at least in my opinion. Get one that fits without causing pain and leave it on until it starts to smell, then take it off to clean for a bit. Rinse and repeat. Literally. If you are between sizes, choose the larger size. This leaves room for your penis to grow slightly during the day.