The Punishment Mistress: A story of Love, Betrayal and Female Domination

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Direct power challenges could mean some form of corporal punishment, but minor ones might be standing in a corner, or additional tasks. One-quarter (27%) said their preferred pain propelled them into a trance-like altered state involving deep relaxation, almost mystical contentment, a sensation of floating outside their bodies achieving oneness with the universe. Subs have a word for this—“subspace.” “It’s meditative.” “I feel all floaty and spacey.” “I go on ‘vacation’ mentally to a place where I feel everything but nothing hurts.” Males think their little willies are so important and masculine so it’s necessary to have this discipline to demonstrate that it’s insignificant. It’s the final element to ensure removal of nasty masculine traits once you’ve feminised him. I renamed it a clitty a long time ago and the whole area is her pussy. I ask Alice to tell me who owns it and tell me how feminine it is, especially with a cure little triangle of pubic hair. ” This shouldn’t be the case, and a mistress should always look out for these small tests from a submissive, confront them, and let the sub know in certain terms that behavior has been below the allowed standard.

A mistress is not there to accept excuses for her wishes not being carried out – it’s incumbent on the submissive to work around his problems and get what the mistress needs to be done, and not offer lies to cover it up. The stern Headmistress who is displeased with your antics at school, and drags you into her office for a proper thrashing

9. Cucking & Ducking Stool

Players negotiate clear agreements about subs’ limits. In Fifty Shades of Grey, the dom, Christian Grey, presents his prospective sub, Anastasia Steele, with a lengthy contract proposal detailing how he’d like to play. They discuss each point. Steele accepts some, modifies others, and rejects several. Grey accepts her decisions and honors them by not delivering any sensations beyond her specified limits. Not all BDSMers employ written contracts, but all state their desires and negotiate their limits and how play unfolds. Consequently, BDSM play is erotic theater. All action is carefully scripted, in marked contrast to conventional (“vanilla”) sex, where many fall into bed with little, if any, negotiation of what’s about to occur. For many kinksters, BDSM feels intimate and powerful because of the negotiations and fantasy sharing it involves. Sadly, mutilation is a form of corporal punishment that still exists today. As mentioned earlier, under Shariah law, thieves may be punished by having their right hand amputated. The use of mutilation as a punishment was much more common in previous centuries. Like many other examples on our list, the social component was extremely important to the punishment as victims were forced to interact in society after being branded or such.

A subtle way of disrespecting a mistress and pushing you a little to see how you handle a light challenge is to actually perform the task, but to perform it in such a way that should invite comment and rebuke, and see if you do so.

Beyond BDSM: Pain as Pleasure

CHASTITY AND KEY HOLDING not for the weak or faint of heart. You choose how long – from a month to several months under my key control. Typical of these excuses are things like ‘my battery died on my phone– I didn’t see your message’ or ‘my boss asked me to work late, I didn’t get time to do it’. Discipline and punishmentis a difficult area in a loving FLR. I have a marriage based on love and the implicit agreement of the transfer of power to one person: me. So this gives me challenges. With ambiguity, words can often mean a few things, but also phrases can have two meanings or even sound like a statement.

I enjoy most forms of role-play. I also have experience in nursing and I am no nonsense professional with a severe manner and an old fashioned attitude. I wanted to ask why I needed to be chained to the bed, but I did not. At least, the chain was long enough that I could move around as I slept. "Good night, Mistress," I replied as she turned out the light and left the room. I prefer to focus on discipline to make our FLR work smoothly. As a happily married couple, our FLR provides the framework for our daily lives. As the leader it falls on me to make sure that we don’t stray from the discipline rules that make it work successfully. Alice may moan at times but fully accepts that in the end that I’m right to operate it the way I do.What a new mistress should remember is that if he is caught trying to challenge you – HE WILL EXPECT YOU TO PUNISH HIM. Human Rights? Don't waste your breath because quoting that will definitely earn you extra strokes. You have no rights here because you're prison scum and will be treated as such. If you want to complain about your human rights being violated, then you'll have to complain to me. And if you want to call to God for help? Well rest assured that God is not going to come to help the likes of you; only I can help you and I'm not a liberal minded do-gooder so I'm not going to help you either. While your male submissive relents his will and choices in certain arenas to your preferences, over time you may come across certain things you need to handle. Good boy. Last one, Arch." I felt the palm of her hand again caressing my ass. She was taunting me. "Are you ready, my slave?"

Safewords give subs control over all play. Despite subs’ nominal subservience, the core irony of BDSM play is that the subs are always in charge, thanks to safe words. If subs feel uneasy, they might say “yellow light,” meaning they’d like to stay in role but discuss their ambivalence. If subs feel threatened, they might say “red light.” Role-playing ends. The action stops. And participants reconsider their agreements. Amazingly important in that the entire male concept of male ego is diffused. For eons males would base their false sense of superiority by defining their organ as the supreme source and indication of superiority and power. In one fell swoop Woman has redefined it as an inferior ‘insignificant imitation of what the Female has. I advocate the use of safe words in sessions for newbie subs to give an extra safehold that you can stop the session at any time should you wish. This is not a reflection on the subs ability to play and not a criticism of the mistress if a safe word is used. BDSM play is a two way experience and for this reason the scene needs to be right for both parties to enjoy the session. I am an excellent reader of body language to know what's working and what's not. Most of my regular slaves play without a safeword but that is trust that can take time to build. Either way, you can rest assured you will be walking out with a spring in your step and a smile on your face.....(or am I describing me after a session???) If this were a real life scenario do you think that the Wardress would consider giving you a warm-up? Or a safe word perhaps? Maybe she would stop if she thought the punishment was too harsh? I don't think so - and that's just how this session works. No warm-up, no safe word and once you've been sentenced that's what you're going to receive.That said each cane has it’s own individual characteristics as learned quite clearly in a past session with professional submissive Hannah Elliot and an adult schoolboy I have been caning for many years.